What does a Tantric Massage with Awakening your Inner Essence look like?
As a provider of tantric massage, I conduct sessions at my private residence in Huddersfield, where I've created a discreet space with plenty of parking. My therapy room, where the sessions take place, is a sanctuary of calm and relaxation, designed to be clean and quiet. To enhance the serene atmosphere, I play soft music, light candles, and fill the room with the sensual fragrance of essential oils.
I offer sessions that last a minimum of two hours, as I believe shorter sessions don't provide the same depth of experience.
When you arrive for your session, I'll greet you personally. We'll sit down for a brief conversation about why you're here, any lifestyle details you wish to share, and any medical information I need to know to tailor the experience to your needs. I'm open to answering any questions, and I'll have my professional qualifications, including my certificates, insurance, and membership with The Association of Somatic and Integrated Sexologists (ASIS), available for you to review. During this time, I'll also share a bit about my background and expertise, and you'll complete the payment for the session.
you'll have the option to take a shower, and I'll provide you with a towel and a sarong to change into afterward. Once you're ready, we'll move to my therapy room, a space designed for calm and relaxation, where we set aside all preconceived notions and expectations. In this serene setting, you'll have the opportunity to establish an intention for your tantric massage. We'll engage in an open dialogue about your personal boundaries as well as mine, ensuring a comfortable and respectful experience for both of us.
I'll introduce you to some fundamental tantric breathing and meditation techniques, though you're welcome to use any practices you're already familiar with. These exercises are designed to deepen your relaxation and enhance your receptiveness to the massage experience.
Once we're ready to begin the Tantric Massage, I will invite you to disrobe and lie face-down on the futon. I encourage you to take a few deep breaths in this moment, relaxing and focusing on the intention you set for the massage. The massage starts with me applying natural almond oil to your back and entire body. This process is not just about physical touch; it's about helping you relax deeply and become receptive to the experience.
As a practitioner trained in tantric energy work, my approach is to help open your body to new sensations and heightened awareness, enabling energy to flow more freely. You'll notice that the massage incorporates elements of subtle body energy work, and I will use specific breathing techniques throughout to enhance the experience. At a certain point, I'll ask you to turn over, continuing the massage on the front of your body, ensuring a holistic and comprehensive experience.
Tantric massage transcends the usual experience of massage, providing deep relaxation and honoring the entire being—body, mind, and soul. It's an awakening to an unparalleled state of aliveness, a journey to discover sensations and joys previously unexplored. Describing tantric massage can be challenging due to its esoteric nature; it's an experience that must be felt rather than explained. In our sessions, I guide you through a transformative process, shifting sexual energy from the genitals to envelop the entire body, creating a state of whole-body orgasmic energy.
This form of massage encompasses the entire body, including the sexual organs, yet it does not concentrate exclusively on them. It's about allowing a blissful, arousing energy to flow throughout your entire being. Importantly, the inclusion of genital touch in a tantric massage is entirely at your discretion. The massage can be performed with or without this element, respecting your personal boundaries and choices.
Lingham massage, a term derived from Sanskrit meaning 'wand of light,' is a revered practice in tantra that acknowledges the male sexual organ as a channel for life force, creativity, and pleasure. In this approach, the lingham is treated with utmost respect and honor. The primary aim of lingham massage isn't to achieve orgasm, but rather to shift the focus towards experiencing pleasure in its fullest form. This practice involves massaging the lingham, testicles, perineum, and sometimes, with prior agreement, the prostate. The essence of lingham massage lies in receiving without the expectation of orgasm, allowing oneself to explore and enjoy the richness of expanded pleasure.
During a tantric massage incorporating lingham massage, you are encouraged to let go of traditional sexual conditioning, which often emphasizes goal-oriented outcomes. Instead, the focus shifts to embracing a new role—one of fully receiving and relishing in the gift of pleasure. This experience invites a surrender to unfamiliar forms of pleasure, potentially leading to a deeper understanding and enjoyment of one's own sexuality.
In authentic tantric practices, the primary focus isn't on ejaculation. Traditional tantra often emphasizes the art of non-ejaculation and the conservation of life force energy. However, I understand that adapting these ancient teachings to our modern context can make strict adherence to non-ejaculation challenging. Ejaculation is a natural human function, and in the event that it occurs during a session, it's received with acceptance and without shame. If you sense the energy of ejaculation building, deeper breathing can aid in distributing this energy throughout your body. A simple gesture, like raising your hand, can communicate your state to me.
The essence of a tantric massage session is to learn the art of fully receiving, without the need to reciprocate. It's an opportunity for you to feel honored and cherished, with the experience being a one-way exchange from me to you. If you feel an impulse to give back, I encourage you to simply notice this urge without acting on it, which can be a profound experience in itself. The power lies in permitting yourself to fully receive, relinquishing control, and surrendering to the experience.
During the massage, your only task is to receive and breathe, staying entirely present in the moment. I'll introduce tantric breathing techniques and visualizations to deepen your engagement with the experience. Eye contact is also welcome, as it can be a powerful way to maintain presence.
Throughout the session, I will be dressed in my underwear, not fully disrobed.
To conclude the massage, I'll leave you alone for 5 to 10 minutes to quietly integrate the experience. Upon my return, we'll have a moment for any questions and to discuss future steps. A shower will be available to you before you leave.
Regular tantric massage can offer numerous benefits, such as increased libido, better control and awareness of sexual energy, heightened self-awareness, improved presence with oneself and others, more intense orgasms, and a deeper connection with oneself and partners. Each session is unique, following the flow of energy in that particular moment, without a fixed agenda.
For those interested in experiencing the transformative potential of tantric massage, I am available for bookings between 10 am and 10 pm on weekdays. Advance booking is advised due to high demand.
Please prepare for your session by avoiding smoking, heavy meals, drugs, and alcohol. Remember, tantric massage is a practice of receiving, with no mutual touch, kissing, oral sex, or intercourse involved. My attire will be modest and appropriate for the session, and I ask clients to respect the boundaries set for a mutually respectful and beneficial experience.
I look forward to welcoming you
Namaste
Amanda
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